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350Xhilaration
07-27-2008, 08:59 PM
Daughter went tubing in a local creek/small river last Sunday. She slipped on some slimy rocks and lost her footing. Falling forward, she caught herself with her hands in front of her. She jammed her thumb on a rock, we assume, and it bled and was mucky.

Sunday night it got more and more painful. We gave her Ibuprofen and tried to get her to go to sleep. She was up several times complaining of pain and she hadn't slept a wink. At 12:30 AM I dug thru my stash of drugs they gave me for my car accident. I googled all of them to see if any were suitable for her age/size. I found that Vicodin was safe enough. I broke a 500mg tablet in 4ths and gave her one. An hour later, she's still in massive pain. I had no idea if the thumb was broken, so I ran to Walmart and got a finger splint. That made it worse. 1:30 AM, I wake my wife and fill her in on what has happened thus far. She loads up and takes her to the ER.

They decide to do a digital block (numb the thumb) and cauterize (burn) holes in her nail to relieve pressure from the hemotoma (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hematoma). It did nada. No fluid was drained and pressure was relieved. My wife brought her home with a script for Vicodin.

That day the pain worsened as did the swelling. My wife took her to the family doc which wanted better XRays and also gave her a tetanus shot and started her on antibiotics. The XRays showed no fractures, so they came home again. Later that evening, my daughter was still in excruciating pain (this kid is about the toughest 11 yr old girl or boy I know - she doesn't cry over anything...ever) and crying a ton.

We take her to the ER again that evening and let them check it out again. They check it out and consult a specialist. (hours elapse) He says call my office in the AM and we'll set an appt for her. We say, how about NO. She needs some pain management NOW. They finally get in touch with the family doc and they admit her. They do a digital block again to numb the thumb and start an IV.

They start her on morphine to kill the pain. The dosage and frequency hardly touch it. They up the dosage and cut the frequency in half. No more pain, and no more consciousness...she's KO'd. We go thru the night with an episode where the morphine wears off and she wakes up screaming. Next shot kicks in after 40 minutes of screaming.

Next day the pain is managed better. Specialist checks her out in the AM and wants to see how it develops as the day goes on and check back that evening. He comes back that evening and we decide the best course of action is to remove the nail and see how bad the infection is, if infection is present.

60 minutes later, she's back in the room with a bandaged hand and no thumbnail. Apparently there was a good bit of infection in the thumb, but it hadn't gone into the tendon, thankfully. Again, the morphine wears off in the middle of the night and she wakes up screaming for 45 minutes. They get a morphine "pump" IV set up so she can dose herself to manage the pain. That works great for the rest of the night...all 4 hours of it...and the next day. They keep her overnight again for observation and she goes from 9:30 PM - 7Am without hitting the button for the morphine. Awesome...finally a good night's sleep (aside from nurses coming in every couple hours to check vitals).

They discharge her at 4PM.

We come home and she did well without Vicodin throughout the night and next day. However, she complains of a rash and some itchiness on her right hand. We call the doc that is on-call and he says to let it go and see if it gets worse and give her some bendryl. We do, and it does get worse. Today she has both hands and feet with the rash and itching like crazy. Call doc back and tell him. He says this time to discontinue the antibiotics (as we suggested the day before, but he's so damn smug and knows everything, he said to go another day...and I can't believe we were stupid enough to do it) and give her more bendryl.

We need to call the doc tomorrow and have her seen.

Sorry for the long story, but that's been my week. Things can always be worse, but this sucks plenty.

http://350xriders.com/morgan

Erics350x
07-27-2008, 09:10 PM
Having 4 kids myself, i know your pain. Doctors and Hospitals don't seem to care about anything but how you plan to pay. When i was a kid atleast most Family Doctors seemed to give a damn.

atctim
07-27-2008, 09:20 PM
Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Ryan.
07-27-2008, 09:45 PM
i would like die if that happened to me and im a guy, you have a strong daughter there

steven 250sx
07-28-2008, 12:08 AM
wow thats carzy i had my nail ripped off once and i'll admitt it i cried it hurt so bad lol. you have a tough daughter there i wudn't worry about bullies picking on her lol
tell her to keep her head up

ATC-Eric
07-28-2008, 12:36 AM
Poor girl, I hope things turn for the better soon.

johnny's X
07-28-2008, 08:32 AM
Hope things get well with her. Being a dad of 3 I know how those things are. Deffinitly in our prayers

350Xhilaration
07-28-2008, 02:28 PM
Thanks everyone.

Not much to report other than the pain is less and the thumb is starting to get back to its normal size and color.

We discontinued the antibiotics and the rash has not gotten any worse. It's still there and itchy, but hasn't spread.

We will be able to get her to the doctor's tomorrow, one that has actually seen her while in the hospital, bot the dude that was on call.

Her spirits were up over the weekend. We went to her team's softball tournament and watched them get the 1st seed for Sunday's eliminations. Her team took 2nd in the tourney.

I'm pretty sure they would have won it had she and 2 other players been there (vacations for the other two) to play. Either way, it was good to have her out of the hospital and having fun again.

She was bugging my wife to go swimming today :crazy:

I'll post up progress and update the webpage with pics as there are changes/improvements.

Thanks again!!

cody2
07-28-2008, 03:06 PM
Having 4 kids myself, i know your pain. Doctors and Hospitals don't seem to care about anything but how you plan to pay. When i was a kid atleast most Family Doctors seemed to give a damn.

Thats why im Canadian!
Thats terrible though, my thoughts are with you and i wish your family good luck.

Banage
07-28-2008, 04:38 PM
i Had an 8 foot tall frog somewhere, If I find it, Ill send it to her!! HAHA Hope the pain is over for her. Hope no other problems come up

tanks350x
07-28-2008, 04:51 PM
wow, tough kid, I had the same thing happen to me when I was young but it was my big toe,, ouch,, hope she gets better quickly

firehart
07-28-2008, 07:16 PM
Glad to her she's doing bettter. You know the old saying this is going to hurt me more than it hurts you. It sure is true if you can't do anything for them.

350Xhilaration
07-29-2008, 04:59 PM
Just got back from the doc. Thumb is looking better each day, still looks horrific, but comparatively, it looks great.

She was at the pool today keeping it out of the water and getting the rest of herself cooled off.

Tomorrow is the appt with the surgeon, so we'll see how that goes.

She is able to pull the dressing off the thumb (does it herself) without tears now, so that's a huge improvement.

It's going to take a while, but she'll be fine.

Toughest part is keeping her from doing stuff. She forgets she has been operated on and doesn't realize how bad it will hurt if she bumps it on something.

Thanks for listening.

Banage
07-30-2008, 05:09 PM
We are all family here

350Xhilaration
07-30-2008, 08:21 PM
8 new pics...

http://350xriders.com/morgan

Surgeon said she can resume normal activities aside from swimming, if she can take the pain.

350Xhilaration
08-04-2008, 07:04 AM
She is doing VERY well now.

Surgeon said she can resume all activities except swimming, but she's back at that as well. Cannonballs at a pool party for her All-Star Softball team on Friday.

We tried to keep the thumb wrapped up, but it wouldn't stay on. The nail area had already dried up and wasn't really an open wound anymore, so she dove right in and kept at it for 4 hours. That was several days ago and she's fine.

No pain meds in almost a week I think!!!

I knew she'd come through it, but it's the going through part that was pretty awful.

Kids will be kids and parents will be parents. They'll get broken and we'll do our best to get em fixed!!!

y2kane
08-04-2008, 10:35 AM
cool glad to see she is doing better. Having 6 kids of my own I feel your pain. I would take all my kids pain if I could but hey that's not how it works out. Like posted earlier we are all family and we are glad to see your daughter is doing good after her ordeal. Hope she heals quickly!

200xcellent
08-07-2008, 06:07 PM
ahhh takes me back when i had a fingernail ripped off in a shopping cart wheel...Hope she gets better Rhule, tell everyone hello

Dirtcrasher
08-07-2008, 08:05 PM
Thats great news bud. Actually, she seems like a trooper!! Good for her, some girls compound the littlest things whether they are young or older but she seems to be a tough kid.....

Dam, I hate losing nails, it takes almost 6 months for that puppy to grow out!!!

bassman
08-11-2008, 11:21 AM
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That hurts just looking at it

Tri-ZNate
08-11-2008, 09:16 PM
ahhh takes me back when i had a fingernail ripped off in a shopping cart wheel...Hope she gets better Rhule, tell everyone hello

Yeah I hear that. My mom was afraid the people in the store were gonna call child services :lol:

Rhule, thats awesome shes doing so much better. And if she is swimming now she'll be 100% in no time

350Xhilaration
11-23-2009, 08:51 PM
Wow. This was over a year ago.

Nail never fully grew in and looks a little funky, but she's fine and dandy without it. Paints the part that's there.

She's grown about 6"-12" since then and has moved up to the Banshee. Wow, she looks SOOO young in these pics.

Thanks for the thoughts and prayers.

300rman
11-24-2009, 01:00 AM
damn man, you got a shitty doctor. the doctors i have had always genuinely cared about my well being.

glad to hear its getting better, usually when stuff like that hurts that bad persistently, its time for a doc visit. broken, jammed, stubbed, even burned your wound doesnt sit there and be persistently excruciating. its harder with little kids to judge how much pain they are in and if its serious or not. If im really effed up, i know when a dr. visit is due. hell, i burn my own warts off with a soldering iron!

oldskool83
11-24-2009, 10:27 AM
glad shes doing better. them fingernail pains can kill. last may i had a 200lbs lime stone rock fall on my index finger nail. busted it open at the nail was bigger then the size of my thumb, had to burn a hole in the nail and to pressure out...OUCH....6 months later its grown out but still feels almost back to normal

The Goat
11-24-2009, 12:49 PM
for future reference on relieving pressure, get a tiny drill bit and turn it by hand. You can go through the nail painlessly. Had to do it more than a few times.

dcreel
11-24-2009, 01:03 PM
I always heated up a paper clip to go through the nail