THIS was one of the biggest problems in my relationships.
I got sick of this a long time ago. I also got tired of trying to negotiate or talk my way into sex with women. So the very next time a woman decided it was time to have sex, I said NO. She flipped out. Am I cheating? Do I not find her attractive? And then the indignation....how dare I refuse sex from a beautiful woman. I did this twice in a row just so she knew I wasn't just having a bad day the first time. I still do it occasionally. No thank you. You seem to be under the impression that I'll do anything you want to get the vag. Nope.
Even my male friends act like I'm gay or crazy for turning down sex.....which is probably why they are still beholden to princess's mood swings and whims. I'm not.
Now this makes that hamster brain practically explode with activity. They start calling their girlfriend's and their family members. They start reading Cosmo and Redbook. They're taking surveys "Is your mate cheating?" "Ten signs your man is over you".....of course, none of this gynocentric fake empowerment crap ever posits that the female could be the problem. No, your behavior is perfectly rational and men are stupid barbarians hell-bent on sex whether it's consensual or not.
They watch Oprah and other such nonsense trying to figure out why their man has no interest. It absolutely screws them up because sex is the one weapon in their arsenal that was foolproof and now it's no longer effective. If a man reacted to a woman refusing sex like several women I know, he'd be called an abuser or a cheater. Women don't get the same treatment.
When you watch a talk show hosted by self-important harpies, they tend to justify women cheating. You aren't allowed to "slut shame" a woman. She didn't cheat because she's a slut. She cheated because "you work too much" "you never show me attention"...all apparently valid reasons to break vows for a woman.
When a man cheats, the very same harpies blather on about "men are dogs" "they just want sex with as many women as possible" "they are POS". Why this double standard? Do men cheat as a way to get attention? Sure. According to some women, this is only excusable for women and not men.
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