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    Exclamation Ok people... LISTEN UP! All members read this post

    I don't even know where to start so this post might ramble a bit.

    There's a growing problem on this site concerning people that can't follow simple rules. Not to mention just general rudeness. I'm not going to call anybody out publicly (although I'm sure some will draw attention to themselves all on their own). The only point to this thread is to try to get you all to think of the rules from a different perspective.

    First of all, this is a privately owned web site. Freedom of speech does not apply to a privately owned web site. Where this idea that being moderated on a 3 wheeler forum is an infringement of your constitutional rights, I have no idea.

    Secondly, you should all think of being a member of this site in the same way that you would relate to being a guest in someone's house because it's essentially the same thing.

    When you go to a person's home, you are expected to behave in a cordial manner and follow whatever rules the homeowner sets forth. As an example, I had a friend that was married to a Korean woman who insisted people remove their shoes when coming in the house. I *HATE* taking off my shoes. I'm just weird about it. BUT, their house, their rules so I took off my shoes every time without a word about it spoken.

    In the above situation, would any of you seriously not only refuse to take off your shoes, but stand on the furniture and argue with the guy and his wife about it? And for those of you who would stand on the furniture and complain, would you call them after you've been removed from the property and continue to complain about it? And THEN, after some time has elapsed and they give you another chance to come in their house, would you make snide, tongue in cheek comments about their rules at every oppurtunity?

    That's exactly what a lot of people do around here and it's about to stop. If you can't handle the rules set forth by the person that OWNS this site and pays the bills, leave. Plain and simple. If you can't leave on your own accord, you will be removed for the greater good of the community.

    If you just use a little common sense and NOT act like an idiot in someone else's house, you'll never have a problem here.

    And before anybody says it, I'll go ahead and address this objection next.

    "But I donated 3 bucks to this site 2 years ago! I can do whatever I want!"

    Uhhh... no. I guarantee whatever amount somebody may have donated to help in operational expenses has been used up by that person many times over. That argument is like going to a party at someone's house that you don't really know all that well, not even being personally invited other than the common knowledge that anybody is welcome to show up, and saying "hey I brought a six pack! Thanks for having me!" and then drinking 7 beers, a few shots, eating a hamburger and a bag of pretzels. Don't even go there.

    Here's another objection I'll handle for some of you just to save you some time.

    "Well THAT guy is allowed to do such and such! How come I can't?!"

    Yeah life sure ain't fair is it. I'll use another comparison to see if I can shed some light on this one for you.

    YOU are having a party. Your trikes are out in the yard. One of your riding buddies hops on a trike and does a wheelie down the street. Some guy at the party that you've never met then tries to hop on a trike. You tell him no. He says "WTF MAN THAT GUY GET AWAY WITH WHATER HE WANTS WHY CAN'T I DO IT?! THIS IS BS MAN I'M GOING TO JUST DO IT WHEN YOU'RE NOT LOOKING AND YOU CAN'T STOP ME!!!"

    That guy would probably get a broken nose from most of us.

    Some people are going to be treated differently due to personal relationships just as it happens in real life. A lot of people on this forum are close friends in the real world. If you can't deal with that one either, click on that little red X in the upper right corner.

    I personally don't even agree with ALL the rules myself but you know what? It isn't my house so I never say anything about it. The benefits this site affords all of us is worth the simple price of following some rules at the owner's request.

    For those few people who don't understand any of this and are a general pain in the arse of the site owner and mod crew, don't be surpised to find your access taken away permanently and without warning very soon.

    Next time any of you reading this gets angry or is tempted to make a rude post or whatever, go ride your trike and try to remember why we're all here first.

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    In the above situation, would any of you seriously not only refuse to take off your shoes, but stand on the furniture and argue with the guy and his wife about it?


    great analogy !
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    Like going to a party at someone's house that you don't really know all that well, not even being personally invited other than the common knowledge that anybody is welcome to show up, and saying "hey I brought a six pack! Thanks for having me!" and then drinking 7 beers, a few shots, eating a hamburger and a bag of pretzels.
    LOL I do that all the time!

    JK, I'm personally glad this subject was brought up and hopefully the person/s responsible for it being brought up see it and understand it.
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    I so agree. I have gotten sick of some of the crap that is now on this site. That is why I do not post as much as I use to or offer that much advice. I could easily go on about it but I have found it does no good.

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    Boy I have been waiting this ...glad you brought this up..along with some site changes...There will be so other changes also..

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    I agree. Not a large contributer or long time member but check in everyday. This board had gone down hill somewhat. My brother and I were talking about this the other day. Several of the boards we visit are now infested with snide remarks, rudeness, and keyboard commandos. Thanks for making it aware. Perps prolly won't even look at this thread though.

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    I know it is tuff to avoid the ass hats out there so I sure it will be a huge challenge to get rid of them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LonesomeTriZ View Post
    it will be a huge challenge to get rid of them.
    No it won't.

    Edit: I'd like to add one thing. I don't want to see anybody get banned. We all love 3 wheelers and that's what it's all about. However, we all need to act like adults. There's too much fighting, rude behavior, blatant breaking of rules, disrespecting the owner and mods in pm's etc going on and it's about to get stamped out. If everybody just follows some basic etiquette from this point forward we won't have to do anything at all.
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    It's about sometime somebody said something. This isn't my "house" but i am sure glad the owners let me visit and look around!

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    I have to ask: (deleted by mod so irrelevant)

    Edited by : I'd rather not have anyone mentioned by name in this thread. Question asked and answered.

    You could have merely deleted the name, not the entire question.

    Thanks for the PM.

    Answered yes, but bringing it out that persons post in the public was like the pot calling the kettle black. The mods need to play by the same rules if were gonna start somewhere...............
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    I know I havent been here long but I would like to say that I find most everyone here to be nice and helpful people. an example... A member here sent me a Clarke tank for the cost of SHIPPING, nothing More. Who does that??? That is one cool dude in my book.

    I am a member of a Mi gun forum and the bickering and childish behavior is like a sickness over ther. I pay an annual fee to be a member there but it is so out of control that I think 3w will be getting my $25.

    Anyway, Great site and keep up the good work. This is a nice site, gotta control the sickness before it spreads.

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    There are about 8 active mods and Admins on this site..

    We are all in agreement on this..

    Infractions will continue, but the tolerance for nasty argumentive replies is Done now..

    If you get a infraction, consider that a warning..
    If you would like to argue over the matter, you will find it wont get you anywhere...
    There are a few folks that are being watched..And they should have a idea who they are.

    If you want to put down another Member, The site, The mods...You may want to think twice.
    So, before you hit the reply button, you better read and read again..And make sure you are getting your point across with out bashing someone.
    The rules apply to all.
    The reason this thread has started, is becuase there are certain members, that just dont get it.
    They want to argue,complain, put snide moderator remarks in the signatures or a public post, cry they are gonna sue the site, finding any loophole within the rules to try to justify, their claim they were innocent and not deserving of a infraction..

    It is stopping NOW..
    You would LOL at some of the dumb arguments people like to put up with the mods, all over a infraction or warning..
    I have seen 6 year olds take punishment better than some of these "Adult members"
    Here is where my long useless list of stuff nobody cares about should go...


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    Well I can pitch in some. On IGN we have bickering and arguing, but its not as bad as here, and whats sad is that how the board I mainly mod has this many posts;

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    This is in a 6 month span. Now just think, There are more than 6,000 members that are just in the free section. In a day I probably ban around 9-20 memebers for cursing, racism, pornography, bashing other members, and this is just a few reasons. I have seen topics here and the way people react and trust me, most other sites would be banning you for a week or 3 days at least, for some of the **** I have seen here. Rules are put in motion by websites so that nobody cracks down on them and shuts them down. For a moment back when IGN split the forums into PAID and FREE sections, it was like a war, people hacked, spammed, overloaded the boards with stupid ****, porno, flaming, bashing, and so much other crap our Mod count went from 10, to 80.

    I have gone into threads were people are instantly calling others liars, or making fun of them, and starting stuff with others. Whats the point? If you have an issue, keep it to the damn PM's. Mods cannot see PM's on any site I have been at, thus the reason for it being private.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Twilight View Post
    Well I can pitch in some. On IGN we have bickering and arguing, but its not as bad as here, and whats sad is that how the board I mainly mod has this many posts;

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    I used to be a mod at the shack so I feel your pain. I would love to have some of the tools here that I had there. It's being discussed but I don't know if the software can even do half of it.

    Rest assured there's a good discussion going on the topic. We'll find a way to clean things up and make this place more enjoyable for everybody.

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    no matter what you do or say this site will always have "the ones" you ban them and they come back under a different name. if you don't like what someone is saying or what they want advice, don't respond to their post, instead send a PM to the mods to try to clean it up/remove. somethings are just funny though. can't be serious all the time. To all the new people around, USE THE SEARCH BLOCK! i have found it helpful. And to the trikers thats been around here a long time, Thanks for the site, advise and the hobby!!!

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