The Red Pill Thread

[83ATC185]

Go to the beach on a city bus or a BMW.......it's the time you spend together that's the most important....and the

After you spend over 72 hours together cramped in a ford tempo broke down 14 hours from home with hardly any money and nothing but the clothes you're wearing, I can guarantee you will be ready to kill each other.

I can also guarantee that you will laugh about it for years to come and both agree that it strengthened your relationship with each other.

One thing in my relationship that comes to mind, i remember threatening to leave her if she wouldn't quit watching lifetime movies. It sounds silly but those movies are terrible and they brainwash women into expecting the kinds of relationships where they run the show and throw a fit if they don't get their way. They also place women into unrealistic scenarios (usually, 99% of the time, against a man doing her wrong) that would never even happen in real life and present it as everyday life. How anyone can watch that garbage ill never know.

She quit watching them. We're still together 9 years later. It's gotta be a give and take. Otherwise its just boring and one person gets stuck with all the responsibilities

[El Camexican]

I guess the question you need to answer to yourself is why did you relinquish your leadership to your wife?

Aha! Now there’s a good question.

I’ll start with a side by side comparison that may answer the question.

Language Proficiency
Her: 100% Spanish, 99% English, along with survival basics of a half dozen others
Me: 100% English 50% Spanish, no others

Education
Her: Dentist + one year of med school and a Masters in Education
Me: Grade 12 by the skin of my teeth

Social Upbringing
Her: Grew up in what could be called the really, really good side of town
Me: Rural bumpkin

Age
Her: 57
Me: 51

% of Net household income
Her 20%
Me 80%

Internet IQ test
Her: 144 (taken in English!)
Me: 144

So the thing is I’m somewhat dependent on her for my survival down here. She handles all my important translations and legal sh*t and there’s been plenty over the years. If we lived in Canada it would be the other way around, but we don’t.

Now after yesterday’s blowup I did get an apology and it came faster than most do, so there’s something, but I’m not going to try and accelerate this process. I have always picked the hens over the chicks as I absolutely can’t stand to spend more than a couple hours around women that I find mentally inferior, or desperately dependent on me, so that in itself could be considered a self-inflicted problem. The bimbo types always bored me after all the positions had been run through a few times. You can only pound the fuzz for so long before you have to rollover and engage each other in conversation.

So basically I’m married to an older, better educated, equally intelligent female. Looking at this from a third party perspective I’d say that it would be difficult to win a battle without throwing a punch.

Stand by for updates.

[Scootertrash]

Pound the fuzz?

Also remember gentlemen, that there is a difference between a Knight in Shining Armor/Hero and a White Knight. One will get you laid the other will get you friend zoned.

[ironchop]

Pound the fuzz?

Also remember gentlemen, that there is a difference between a Knight in Shining Armor/Hero and a White Knight. One will get you laid the other will get you friend zoned.

Amen to that.

I prefer to ignore females who make a habit of being intentionally froo-froo and helpless. Barbies need not apply. I like tough and intelligent women. The kind that usually intimidate other men or don't suit those guys who want a totally dependent dumb shelf decoration with kitchen skills.

White knights will subconsciously seek out damsels in distress as a dating preference. I think it has alot to do with them thinking if they find a helpless victim and "save them", then she will be more loyal to him in the long run. I don't like to babysit.

I'll stop to lift a woman up for a second. After that, sink or swim. My obligation ends the minute she's upright, so to speak

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[El Camexican]

My obligation ends the minute she's upright, so to speak

I like women who feel an obligation when I'm upright, so to speak

[OTAlucard]

White knights will subconsciously seek out damsels in distress as a dating preference. I think it has alot to do with them thinking if they find a helpless victim and "save them", then she will be more loyal to him in the long run. I don't like to babysit.


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When I Was dating my ex girlfriend she was having some "problem" with her computer I Said I Know you know what's wrong You're more intelligent than that And .
you shouldn't act stupid So she fixed it herself Right away

[ditchmud]

BRAVO MEN! Been off this site for some time and just revisited recently. I got to snooping around and stumbled into this thread. Which is exactly what I needed. Luckily I have had enough downtime at work to read this entire thread in the last 24 hours. Tim if you are finished with your book and no one has asked for it I would love to read it.
Little background on myself: I am 46 been married almost 27 years now and have 3 young adult children. My marriage has been rocky at times and great other times. My wife loves to turn down sex for whatever reason and when she does give in lately I’m left feeling like I’d been better off if she turned me down again. I’ve contiplated leaving, cheating, suicide, etc. When our relationship is good...well it’s really good and we can’t get enough but eventually it reverts back to where I am despising her existence. I’m gonna follow this thread and begin to practice TRP because a lot of what I’ve read so far has hit home. Unknowingly I’ve already been adopting some things lately before reading any of this because I have noticed some patterns on my own but couldn’t quite grasp as much as I have learned here. I need to watch the video links yet I’m sure to tie it all together but I am fairly entrigued thus far. Keep up the good work fellas!

[atctim]

Rich: I have already passed the book on. I am sorry. It can be had for cheap though - and it will teach you so much. Reading it truly is enlightening! Here is a link to purchase: https://www.amazon.com/Rational-Male...=rollo+tomassi

I am positive this thread will help men revert back to what we are supposed to be doing - BEING MEN! I can not preach this point enough: Point - Women really do not know what they want! A woman wants to control a relationship. yet when a man relinquishes that right to the woman, things usually fall apart because women are not designed nor wired to lead a relationship. It's not really what they want because thing will not work as they have seen on TV or the movies. Again - this is biology - not some pseudo science from the purple haired Femi-Nazi teaching a Woman's Right's class at the local university. This is why so many of us find ourselves not being happy, and neither are our women. We are born to lead. As 83ATC185 has mentioned above: regarding Lifetime Movies - this is what is known as the "Disney Fairy tale". What is meant by that is the media (Disney sets the example) portrays unrealistic scenarios and women eat it up. Some men do too! Men are taught that if you do everything for your woman - then life will be perfect. They preach put the princess on a pedestal. This tears down relationships and creates a number of problems: White Knighting for men, entitlement for women - all the things wrong with society today. It seems almost designed to create an unrealistic world to live in and ruin everything natural that relationships are supposed to be. It's almost as though the puppet masters have created this nightmare via media, and the Feminists have bought it hook line and sinker. We need to fight back!

Stolen from another site:

Here's a fun exercise.


First, read this from yesterday's Dear Abby:


"DEAR ABBY: My fiance and I have been engaged for two years. Our wedding is set for a year from now. I'm thinking about calling off our wedding, not because I don't love him, or because I don't want to spend the rest of my life with him. I know I want that. It's because I'm the only one with a decent job. He has a job, but doesn't earn enough to support us.


I can't be the only one earning an income. How are we supposed to move out of our parents' houses and start a life together if I'm the one doing everything? What will happen when things need to start getting paid for, and there's no guarantee he'll find something? I have talked to him about it, and he's angry. He knows it's time to change his life around and get serious.


Should I keep the date and keep my fingers crossed he'll find a job by then, or postpone our wedding, which has a venue but nothing else planned? I don't need to get married anytime soon, and I'd prefer to wait until he can support himself and we are in a better place financially. Then I feel like we could move forward. Am I making the right decision? -- CAUTIOUS IN NEW JERSEY


DEAR CAUTIOUS: Yes, you are. You are thinking with your head instead of being swept away by your emotions, and I applaud you for it. I have said for many years that before a woman marries she should be able to support herself, in case future circumstances require it. Well, the same is true for a man."


Now flip those male and female pronouns.


Burden of performance, gentlemen... burden of performance!

[ironchop]

More on the Disney fairy tale Tim mentioned. This particular article makes it sound as if a "real man" sits around waiting for his woman's beckon call so that he will "make her feel secure about herself"

http://www.sheknows.com/love-and-sex...and-from-a-man

These are not women, they are children. These are things that your children require while being raised. I'm not going to raise a wife and the first sign a woman gives that she "requires" these ten things to "feel whole and secure" I'm going to have to check her ID to make sure I'm not statutory raping a 13yr old trapped in a 35 yr old woman's body. I would dump this girl like a hot rock. ANY woman or Man who needs another person or bases their own security on the actions of another person is neither whole nor secure at all and the fact that she believes that crap means that you need to get her into therapy and fast. A REAL woman doesn't need a man to build her up. She has the strength and fortitude to build herself up.

Modern entertainment media and fantasy likes to reinforce the ridiculous notion of the guy making huge grand gestures, begging for a hand in marriage, blowing a third of yearly income on an overpriced finger trinket "to prove how much he adores you". Holding the radio over your head while you throw pebbles at her window so you can apologize for not bowing to her every whim and fancy and making her first because she's helpless, weak, and pretty (read: she has a vagina that you might get to penetrate if you give her your balls in a velvet sack).

My wife and I were debating about her favorite TV fantasy drama last night. Grey's Anatomy. I hate that f@#$ng show. I think women should be appalled that in this female-centric drama, the female surgeons are frequently having sex in the broom closet, having passionate diatribes about relationships during serious and complicated surgeries, showing their insecurities while having loud emotional outbursts, all while on the clock at the hospital. If I walked into a hospital and saw this level of immature and unprofessional behavior, I would immediately leave regardless if I were bleeding to death. The women staff at my local hospital DO NOT behave like this at all thank God. I would not want emotionally unstable, neurotic or bipolar quacks like this coming anywhere near me with a sharp object.

Deonna eats this show up. I think it's insulting to females and a bad example for everyone.

Now on the same night there are two other shows that follow on the same network. 'How To Get Away With Murder' which is female-centric about a law professor and practicing attorney who convinced her students to kill and do any multitude of unscrupulous things while she battles addiction and emotional immaturity. The show that comes on the same network right after this is 'Scandal' where the female main character is a conniving, murdering, power hungry woman who sleeps with anyone who can help her maintain that power while she manipulates an entire nation in order to suit not only her lust for power but her emotional and personal relationships and insecurities as well. If the point is to raise women up and empower them, they missed the mark. Do men do these things? Yes, but if your point is to empower women over men you're going to need to stop portraying them as emotionally weak, irrational, highly reactionary, and petty.

All three of these are Shonda Rhime's shows...the woman who is hailed as a leader of women's empowerment.

The message I think Rhimes is trying to send women is that you can be mentally fragile and emotionally unstable but it's really "compassion" and you should be respected, revered, and paid the same as a man regardless of your unprofessional behavior. You don't need to work on yourself at all. You deserve to be equal regardless of your behavior BECAUSE you have ovaries and BECAUSE Men are bad and unfair.

BTW.....I have never bought De'onna a Valentine's day gift. It's a contrived holiday using women to manipulate men into buying meaningless products. If you need a specific day of the year to prove your love and adoration on que, then you're a fool and your relationship is a facade

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[Arky-X]

Now flip those male and female pronouns.

I was reading that Dear Abby bull wondering where in the world it was going.......then BOOOM!!!!!


I said it in my earlier post "Equal Rights Begins with the Toilet Seat." I've said this tongue in cheek sitting around having drinks and you would be surprised the reaction or argument of how the toilet seat should be left down.....it's a fact....scientific.....because a woman said so.....so she doesn't fall in.
You can't ask for things to be equal then try to pick and choose what goes along with it. You want equality, then you get all the bull that goes with it.
Car broke down....better get out the wrench sister or have the pocketbook to get it fixed.
Yardwork.......pull start that mower and get to pushing or have the pocketbook to pay a lawn service.
A/C stopped working......study up on some HVAC and get to tearing into it or have the pocketbook to pay the man.
My phone is acting up......freaking Google it or have the pocketbook to buy a new one.
Don't have the pocketbook to fix anything.......better find someone willing to trade work for sex.

Toilet seat is up.....then put the god damn thing down!


My sisters grew up in a house of mainly boys so they didn't complain about that one. They were glad we put it up so we didn't pee all over the seat.


Cheers my brothers!

[atctim]

DitchMud: this comes extreemly highly advised by all the Red Pill gurus - might be a great read for you - maybe even better than the first one I mentioned:
https://www.amazon.com/Married-Man-L...d+man+sex+life

[atctim]

Ironchop - you are another inspiring man to me - thank you! You seem to be so well versed in something I have only discovered in the past 3 years. I see other men here are picking it up too, and it makes me proud and happy to see that we can get our testicles back if we desire a better life for ourselves and our families. For the single guys out there - single women will pick up on these cues from you - simply being the best man you can be! That in turn becomes confidence, and that is what women desire - a confident competent level headed man! I think there is a breaking point for everything. To many men, they may never reach that point. Some may be fine with being a blue pill husband bowing down to every whim of their childish wife. Others are blessed with natural Red Pill mannerisms. For the rest of us, we have this thread! Share, learn, read - DO!

Something I read at the beginning of my Red Pill journey was the simple phrase: "Be Awesome". Everyday you should do at least one thing to improve yourself. Finish an unfinished job around the house, learn a new skill, tear apart something broken and fix it, LIFT WEIGHTS!, improve. Rather than sitting on your ass watching worthless media on the idiot box, get up and out and improve yourself. If you continue on this path, the old lady will take note. I dare say sometimes they will even follow suit. Just yesterday I thanked my old lady for she had really cleaned up our bedroom - spic and span. This is out of character for her, but I thanked her for being "Awesome". Every time she steps her game up, I take notice and thank her. Lead by example men!

[ironchop]

I was reading that Dear Abby bull wondering where in the world it was going.......then BOOOM!!!!!


I said it in my earlier post "Equal Rights Begins with the Toilet Seat." I've said this tongue in cheek sitting around having drinks and you would be surprised the reaction or argument of how the toilet seat should be left down.....it's a fact....scientific.....because a woman said so.....so she doesn't fall in.
You can't ask for things to be equal then try to pick and choose what goes along with it. You want equality, then you get all the bull that goes with it.
Car broke down....better get out the wrench sister or have the pocketbook to get it fixed.
Yardwork.......pull start that mower and get to pushing or have the pocketbook to pay a lawn service.
A/C stopped working......study up on some HVAC and get to tearing into it or have the pocketbook to pay the man.
My phone is acting up......freaking Google it or have the pocketbook to buy a new one.
Don't have the pocketbook to fix anything.......better find someone willing to trade work for sex.

Toilet seat is up.....then put the god damn thing down!


My sisters grew up in a house of mainly boys so they didn't complain about that one. They were glad we put it up so we didn't pee all over the seat.


Cheers my brothers!

On the "pocketbook to pay for it"....I agree and I've seen women use the "we get paid far less than men so we CAN'T pay for this stuff" as a way to invalidate this .....victim playing. I know several women who make more than I do. My sister in law is one of them so that's no excuse.

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[ironchop]

Ironchop - you are another inspiring man to me - thank you! You seem to be so well versed in something I have only discovered in the past 3 years...

Tim, I am honored by this statement but I struggle every day to maintain my self and my convictions and direction. I'm really not much different or more "woke" than alot of guys. I got turned on to this by experience and a following conversation I had with a young man who introduced me to Jack Donovan and then Roosh. That's where I connected my own experiences with what I was reading elsewhere. I was so sick of females and bullshyte but I couldn't quite figure out why or how until lately.

I have had all the same feelings and been in the same roller coasters that you, John, and Rich described in their posts above.

Im reminded every day how complex all this stuff is and how intertwined these things are. It absolutely affects nearly ever interpersonal relationship we have with each other no matter what gender we are.

The difference is that women have support systems, good or bad, in place to help and they have opportunity for open dialogue with one another. Men don't have that and we are encouraged to keep our thoughts and feelings to ourselves. That's what helps enslave men. We don't network or discuss anything existential or emotional because of the false bravado and machismo we've been fed by entertainment and media just like the false female empowerment being fed to them.

Men and masculinity is at a crisis point now thanks to third wave feminists and their male White Knight apologists efforts to unseat the order. The weak are moving the goalposts to make themselves strong. This is false strength and that's why everything is starting to collapse and young men turn to gun violence and gangs as a coping mechanism.

Scooter, I'm a biker too (was...sold the bikes) I know you know what I'm talking about with men searching for meaning and masculinity. You noticed that 1% MC participation is way up recently, I'm sure. These are guys who are going to the polar opposite of what's accepted as "masculinity" these days because it's all fake and empty and makes men weak. They seek out true brotherhood and trust that isn't afraid to be violent or cruel to protect these things.


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[atctim]

This should be watched. this was on last night, as they are running a special segment all thru March. take a look:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QfuOtGLfg04