Hi Ya , I know this is about 11 hours since the last posting so i dont know if you are still monitoring the post or not?
I am by far not an expert and im not a know it all but i am attending MMI (Motorcycle Mechanics Institute) Like I say im definately not an expert but my diagnosis would be a bent,or broken shift fork and or fork rod and or damage to the shift drum probably leading to damage to the gear or gears themselves since you have shavings in the oil,.
Definately get a manual,and some decent tools , ive torn down about 3 trannys so far at school a 350x, xr 200, and a Harley davidson. on an air cooled R it shouldent really be a big deal but yes you do have to remove the head ,cylinder ,and split the case, just get all your gaskets and such before hand ,it would be a good idea to research for shift forks,fork rod, etc.. to see if they are still available from a dealer or get a parts motor, It may really seem like a big task but even when I tore the 350x down ( and had to do it about 4 times the top end any ways bottom once) it really wasent bad and the 350x has considerably more parts than an air cooled R its really not a chore if you have the tools I think you may need a rotor puller?? not too familiar with the Rs but i would imagine youd need one the clymer or haines manual will go into more detail than the honda manual but i prefer the honda manual . but i would suggest getting clymer because it should walk you through it step by step just take your time and get the tools you need .
But if you are too intimidated by it ( I was definately intimidated doing transmissions before i actually did it ) then definately find a decent mech. that will do it and maybe ask if you can help do it too maybe you could get it done cheaper too but I think you can do it though especially with all the help from this site and other members espcially the 250R guys here.
83 YTM 200,84 200X,,85 350X basket case,86 350X parts trike,86 350Xroller needs top end, 86 250SX,