Another way of looking at it ,,, like I do and problly most bidders REALLY do is to bid the max you WILL pay for that item.
If you really want that part ,,, what the hell you thinking ??? Do you want to get it for 1 penny less then the other bidder ??? ( you don't REALLY want that part then - grudge bid or what ever you do, or not, want to call it)
I have got to think that the vast majority of the population sets a limit on what they will spend on a part ,,, and factor in the shipping of that part.
I can also name sevral board members who I have been out bid on auction sites. Disappointed - yes. Whacked my budget out of shape - certanly NOT. Talked to them and done favors for afterwards , heck yeah. I just wasn't gonna pay any more then the set limit I was wanting to spend.
Lord only knows what bidders max is ,,,, I am sure if anybody was to put sevral thousand dollar max bids on the trike
parts we all seek,,, they most probbly will win the bids ( and be some sorry souls for winning ).
If you put the max you want to spend on a part ( plus shipping ) and loose,, what is the crying about ?
The 24 hour rule should be applied more also imo ,, wait 24 hours then bid.
I finally got it thru to my wife that spending more on something she needs is a heck of a lot better then getting a really good deal on something she don't need (it cut that yard sale crap down alot for sure )
john