Advice, i need help from you mature 3wws

[honda_atc200es]

yea, i understand what you guys mean, and i apreciate it, thats why im waiting a year before i do anything big, i figure a relationship that can stand a year is worth taking the chance to pursue

[Jolly Roger]

Relationships can be very complicated. I know that you want to help the girl in any way that you can, but things are already starting to sound fishy. You may have a great run with her, but I'm afraid things may end is disaster for you. Be careful if you decide to continue this relationship. Personally, I suggest you end it like a gentlemen and find a cute girl at your school to chase.

[Chevy200s]

i figure a relationship that can stand a year is worth taking the chance to pursue

I cant beleive it, I'm only 22 and I feel so old when I read this because I can think back to times I've felt like that. Good luck man, be careful, like everyone else is saying it does sound a little strange, but if you think you can be smart about it good luck, hey you never know

[The Goat]

amazing...i *Edited**Edited**Edited**Edited* up a relationship when the woman is living with me...and this kid pulls it off 1400 miles away. ...........wow.

[RedRider_AK]

Don't be so bitter, Goat!

[The Goat]

lol...i'm not bitter, i'm just saying. besides, she has many friends, and i love getting passed around.

[honda_atc200es]

update lol

its been almost a year and after a couple 'breaks' me and her are still happily together. she is getting an apartment next to my house in 6 months, we plan on getting married and moving in together when im 18. yes this is moving a little fast but after all ive been through with her (2000 miles away or not) ive decided this is the real deal. we have gotten over some major fights and worked out the issues.

just thought id share what are your opinions (free roam here your not gunna hurt my feelings )

[DeePa]

never plan too far ahead

[honda_atc200es]

very true, im sure some things will change but for the most part as far as her getting an apartment goes, i have to plan that other wise shes stuck 3000 miles away from any family

[Dirtcrasher]

Let me tell ya kid, sometimes "real issues" tend to come up on you around your late twenties and change your whole perspective.

Looking back - in your thirties is your best chance for marital success.... IMO :P

[honda_atc200es]

true, but i want to go head first, see where it takes me, ive had a long time, and still another year or two to decide what i want from life, i think that if i was going to have problems with this girl it would have become clear already. i mean sure there have been fights, but thats what reassures me, that even after we swear never to talk again, we come back, willing to make changes and improve

[SYKO]

Let me tell ya kid, sometimes "real issues" tend to come up on you around your late twenties and change your whole perspective.

Looking back - in your thirties is your best chance for marital success.... IMO :P

werd to your mother

[Vealmonkey]

Well, If your mind is made up, go for broke. Your young and can restart if things go sour. I don't know what all you have posession wise, maybe a prenuptual agreement if you have alot of things and she has very little. The main things that seems to wreck relationships are money and fidelity. Don't have sex with her friends or family and you'll be way ahead! LOL The fact that you guys can work things out helps alot. Try to keep the fighting down though. Once you guys are living together, make sure you cover each others backs, cause the situation is way different. When you are under the same roof, her fights are your fights and vice versa. Do your best to do your share and make sure she does the same. The next big hurdle will be a kid or kids. Sounds like you have a good idea what you are doing and a plan. Just remember, life happens. Don't take things out on each other. Best of luck.
Trike Wedding??

[300rman]

Be careful, and good luck!

sweet find though, a hot girl that likes Motorsports.

[honda_atc200es]

thanks i appreciate the advice and support

as far as fights go, we have only had a few, but they kinda separated us for a couple weeks. which i think is healthy because it lets us cool down and rethink things

yeaa im lucky because its due to motor sports that i met her, so now i have a riding buddy for life (hopefully )